Funerals – Eastern Star Service

Funerals – Eastern Star Service

In this article we’re going to briefly discuss an offshoot of the Masonic service, one for women called the Eastern Star Funeral Service.

The Eastern Star organization is an offshoot of the Masons for women. The reason for this is that a woman can’t become a Mason. The reasons why, at least for this article, are unimportant. However, there is an organization for women who want to be a part of the Masonic community. That organization is the Eastern Star. The only requirement for becoming a member of the Eastern Star is that the woman has to be the descendent of a Mason. Yes, there is a catch. Your father or grandfather or husband or somebody in your family has to be a Mason himself. If this one condition is met and you then become a member of the Eastern Star you are then entitled to an Eastern Star memorial service.

So how does one qualify for an Eastern Star funeral service? Well, when a member of the Eastern Star in good standing, dies, they are entitled to this service. Good standing means that their dues are paid up in full and have no Masonic charges filed against them.

When an Eastern Star member dies the chapter to which they belong sends a floral arrangement to the funeral home. This arrangement is in the shape of a five pointed star and with the mystical colors of the order.

Before the actual service takes place however, the members of the chapter …

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Points You Ought to Under no circumstances Set in Your Will

Points You Ought to Under no circumstances Set in Your Will

A will is a crucial estate arranging doc, and enables you to distribute your assets and property in accordance to your wishes. At a minimum amount everybody should really have a will, even if you believe you do not have several belongings. It is a widespread misconception that only wealthy persons will need estate ideas. A will has a selection of restrictions you may perhaps not be aware of. However, there are various items that really should NOT be bundled in a will:

Home held in a living trust or joint tenancy – residence deeded to a living rely on are not able to be willed to another person else, and a will cannot improve the ideal of survivorship in joint tenancy, which passes to the joint tenant by law. Never permit the legalese scare you. Let an attorney enable you make certain that any assets you leave is handled in the way you want.

Accounts with specified beneficiaries – economic accounts and everyday living insurance coverage proceeds go to beneficiaries who are selected by you by means of a specified beneficiary sort, and are unable to be provided to a person else via a will.

Contingency gifts – leaving assets that are contingent on the beneficiary doing a duty or act (like marrying or attending higher education) is not generally legal. Normally speaking, you are not able to “take care of from the grave” by making an inheritance contingent on anyone finding married, changing their faith, and so forth. …

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Writing a Eulogy For a Child’s Funeral

Writing a Eulogy For a Child’s Funeral

Nothing is more heartbreaking than the death of a child. Writing a eulogy for a young person can be a hard task, especially if one was close to the child. As you review the life of the child you will eulogize, remember why people deliver eulogies: to memorialize the person who has died and celebrate his or her life. (In Greek, eulogia means blessing or praise.) Your task is to sincerely deliver a positive tribute to the life of the child that has passed on. Preparing what to say in advance can make the job of writing and delivering a eulogy a little easier. Here are some tips on how to write a eulogy for a child:

Gather facts about the child to discover a main theme for the eulogy. Recall personal stories. Brainstorm what made the child truly happy. What will you remember most about the young person? Did the child have a special motto or any particular values? Mention special achievements. Get stories from others as well. Avoid negative, embarrassing, and sad stories.

Keep it simple. Once you begin writing your speech, aim for clarity. Big words are not necessary. Neither are great philosophical insights. Just be honest, and speak in a manner that would be understandable to a child.

Be organized: Include the following sections in your eulogy:

The Introduction. Introduce yourself and let others know how you are connected to the child. Your introduction should set up the main theme of the eulogy in a …

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Sample Funeral Poems

Sample Funeral Poems

Viewing sample funeral poems is helpful if you’re planning to include them inside your funeral programs or the funeral service. There are many different types of poetry that is appropriate, but you may find it helpful if they are categorized according to who they were written for.

For example, there are funeral poems written specifically geared for mothers, fathers, grandparents, and friend, just to name a few. Since there are so many different poems, you should find a web resource such as the one we’ve indicated below that actually organize the poems in relation to the person. This is helpful because it cuts down on the time consuming task of having to sift through many forms of poetry in order to find the perfect one.

Some sample funeral poems may include “Letting Go”, “Safely Home”, “Death is a Door”, and “The Broken Chain”. These are just a few of the best poems for funerals. You can also “Google” ‘best poems for funerals’ and come up with a few resources that provide you ideas on certain poems.

Poems can be easily incorporated into a funeral speech and noted within funeral prayer cards, memorial bookmarks and funeral programs. The words contained in them are encouraging to the grieving heart and provide some sort of comfort for the bereaved family. It’s not difficult to find them, all you need to do is utilize the power of the internet and take your pick! Using poems is a great idea and is often included in …

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How to Adjust Cabinet Doors That Will Not Close

How to Adjust Cabinet Doors That Will Not Close

Every once in a while we have been challenged with trying to adjust a customer’s kitchen or bathroom cabinet doors that will not close. There are several reasons for this. Perhaps I can address your particular situation and offer a solution to the problem.

Freestanding Units
If you are working with a “freestanding” cupboard that is not fastened to the wall, your problem could be that the cabinet is racked out of kilter. Push on the top left or right side of the unit and see if it helps the situation any. If it does, you will need to place shims underneath the bottom of one corner of the cabinet. This is going to be a process of trial and error to get the unit situated correctly. If it is setting on carpet, the culprit may be the tack strip that is installed right next to the wall.

The Door Closes But One Corner Sticks Out
This particular situation usually involves the top or bottom hinge being adjusted too far out or in. If it is the top corner of the door that is sticking out, then either the top hinge needs to be adjusted in toward the cupboard face or the bottom hinge must be moved out away from the cabinet face.

The Entire Edge of the Door Sticks Past the One Next to it
Another possible situation might be that when the cabinet door is closed it has a tendency to slightly reopen along the entire edge of …

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Funeral Poems: Tips for Reading a Poem at a Funeral

Funeral Poems: Tips for Reading a Poem at a Funeral

Most people assume that if they are going to read a poem at a funeral it is just a matter of printing a copy and going up and reading, this is not actually the case. Reading in public is a skill that takes some practice to learn, especially when you are doing the reading in a large setting like a church. You are going to want to take some time before you read the poem to make sure that you pick up some of the basic skills that are required for reading in public.

The first thing that you have to do in order to read a poem at a funeral is to make sure that you have a printed copy, don’t even think about trying to memorize it. You will also want to make sure that it is in fairly large letters with a lot of space between lines, the last thing that you want is to lose your place while you are reading.

One of the things that you are going to want to work on when you are reading out loud is to make sure that you speak slowly. Most of us speak way to fast when we are speaking in front of a group. There should be brief pauses before every line in the poem, the same is true if there are any commas in the poem. You are actually going to want to vary the speed at which you speak so this is something that …

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